I want to bring to your attention to an obstacle almost every guy slogging through the single scene trenches is forced to deal with – whether they’re aware of it or not.
Attractive women are almost never at bars alone. Instead, they’re surrounded by an army of people.
You may successfully approach the woman, but if you don’t know how to deal with her friends, they’ll snatch her away from you and whisk her off into the dark night, never to be seen again.
Here’s a painless way to get inside her social circle…
Ask the group of women for their opinion on something.
If you do this right, you’ll engage the whole group in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here’s a simple example that comes from Neil Strauss
Ask the whole group, “Who lies more – men or women?”
Every one will put their two cents in.
Then ask, “Who do you think is more likely to cheat on their partners – men or women?”
The guys in the group will say, “Women.” The women will argue, “Men.”
This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?
May 30th, 2010
Jonas Michels
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